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Gaining Confidence After an Accident

The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) reports the fifth most common cause of death in the U.S. is accidents, as also stated on Boston auto accident attorneys’ website. Most accidents are very traumatic, even where there was no physical injury. The emotional scars can remain for a really long time particularly if you were the one behind the wheel. You might find yourself reluctant to get anywhere near the wheel of a car soon after. This is a normal reaction and may not bother you much at first. However, it is important that this feeling does not linger. The best way to overcome the fear of driving after an accident is to get your confidence back. Here are a few suggestions on how to do just that.

Be Kind to Yourself

Don’t feel keep feeling bad about what happened. Stop blaming yourself because you had an accident. According to Forbes, most people file a claim for collision at least once in about 17 years. So you are not alone in this. Whether it was as a result of your mistake or the other driver’s, there are lessons; learn from them and move on. When you move on, go slowly. Do not push yourself too hard as you have been through an experience that would most likely be traumatic for most people. Take things easy and be kind to yourself. Take care of yourself and if you need to take driving lessons in order to boost your confidence, go ahead and take them.

Get Back On

Don’t wait too long before getting back behind the wheel or you might get paralyzed by anxiety. Go slowly, but do make proactive efforts to try and get back to driving. You can start in your neighbourhood where there is less traffic, and drive around for a bit. As your confidence builds, you can then move on to the highway and your other normal routes. If you do not want to stress about being responsible for someone else, then drive alone until you gain more confidence. However, if having the company of someone you trust helps you to keep calm, be sure to invite them along for the ride. Understand that everyone is different, so go with the approach that works for you.

Seek Therapy

Driving anxiety is a real problem for many people and if you are suffering from such anxiety, do not dismiss it. If you have tried driving again and you just can’t seem to make that move from thinking about it to actually driving, then you should seek therapy. Psychotherapy is used for anxiety resulting from a traumatic experience, and it is likely that the accident was traumatic for you. Do not let anyone make you feel bad about the need to seek psychotherapy, in the end it is about taking control of your life. If you are able to face your fears and get behind that wheel at the end of it all, then that’s all that should matter.

Gaining your confidence back after having a motor accident is not easy, but with patience and determination it can be done. Just remember to be kind to yourself and take it at your own pace.

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Interact with Dogs: Child Safety

Dog experts will agree that some dogs bite and some dogs don’t, but all dog bites are preventable. Unfortunately, children are at a high risk of receiving a bite from a dog. In Canada and the United States, between 1982 and 2014, of all the reported dog bite cases, 81% of the victims were children. Additionally, between 2010 and 2012, 359,223 children were bitten by a dog and while many people assume that dog bites are received from strange dogs, about 61% of dog bites occur within the home or in a familiar place.

While there is often controversy as to where the responsibility falls when a dog bite occurs (some blame the owners, others blame the victim) parents can help decrease the risk of a dog bite by teaching their child how to responsibly and safely interact with dogs.

Adult Supervision Around Dogs

Although it’s important that children are taught how to behave around dogs, either familiar or unfamiliar, adults are also responsible for supervising children around dogs. If an adult is around, particularly the owner of the dog, the dog is less likely to attack. If an attack does occur, adult intervention can help reduce the severity of the attack (ie. fatal attack). Similarly, if a child is left alone with a dog and the dog does attack, the child is less likely to free him or herself from the attack than if an adult was present. Not only are adults responsible for supervising a dog’s behavior, unsupervised children are more likely to wander off into a potentially dangerous situation.

Why Do Dogs Bite?

This is an important question to answer, especially for people who assume that dogs are always at fault. First off, there is no one reason why dogs bite, but here are a few:

  • Dogs are Pack Animals: By nature, dogs are pack animals and much of their behavior is based on such instincts. Since children are typically smaller than most dogs, some dogs may consider themselves as superior or alpha. Additionally, a dog may display protective behavior for a territory or person (which is also instinctive behavior).
  • Boundaries are Compromised: Many dogs are territorial and have boundaries in which they feel comfortable and safe. Children, on the hand, do not understand boundaries. An overly protective dog can feel threatened when his or her boundaries are crossed.
  • Too Much Physical Contact: Most dogs like affection and are eager to receive it, but if a tail or ear is pulled by an overly affectionate child, a bite may occur as a warning to “back off”.

Show and Tell Your Child How to Interact with Dogs

While dog owners have a great responsibility to teach their dogs not to bite and to recognize a potentially dangerous situation (ie. meeting strangers or too much stimulation in public), parents can only control how their child acts around dogs (or how the family dog acts). Here are some tips to teaching your child how to act around dogs:

  • When approaching a dog (and his or her owner) always walk slowly and quietly
  • Always ask the owner if you can pet his or her dog, never assume
  • If the owner says “yes”, slowly extend your hand to let the dog sniff the back of it (not the palm)
  • Pet a dog’s shoulder or chest, not the head

 

Additionally, if a child is in a dangerous situation with a dog, he or she should:

  • Never run, but give the dog a jacket, backpack, or something not attached to them
  • Avoid direct eye contact and stand like a tree with arms at their sides
  • Remain quiet and curled up in the fetal position if the dog knocks him or her down
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Airbnb: Preparing Your Home

Becoming an Airbnb host is a great way to generate some extra income for that spare bedroom in your home or for the whole space when you are off visiting family and friends over holiday break. Before you take pictures of your home, set a price and post on the Airbnb site, you need to make sure your home is ready to be rented out short term by complete strangers.

Is it Legal to Rent Out Your Space?

Many Airbnb hosts, eager to keep up with rent payments while visiting friends states away, are unaware that it may be illegal to rent out their space for a day or two. Whether you rent an apartment or own a home, you need to check out the laws in your city or your rental agreement. Even if your landlord is never around and you’re only renting out your place for a night or two, you could be violating your lease and you could return home from your own trip with an eviction notice. Know all of the legalities before you decide to host, it’s not worth the risk.

Get Your Home Ready as an Airbnb Host

If you’re given the “go ahead” to be an Airbnb host, congratulations, but you will need to do a little prep work before you rent your space for your own safety and the safety and comfort of your potential renters.

  • Keep it Clean: If you have the extra funds to hire a professional cleaner, go ahead and splurge, otherwise clean your space as you see fit. The cleaner the space, the better ratings you’re likely to get. Additionally, if you don’t take the time to clean, you really can’t expect much in return from your renters. If your home is prone to dust, animal dander, or even mold, you should definitely mention something in your description.
  • Fix Up Your Space: Just as you would with a long term renter or guest, you’d make sure to fix any hazardous areas in your home, such as a loose railing, broken step, or unsafe electrical. In the event of a guest injury in your home, Airbnb offers insurance, but you also want to talk to your insurance provider and make sure what’s covered.
  • Communicate Everything: If, for some reason, something breaks right before a renter is due, make sure you communicate any potential dangers. A responsible and successful Airbnb host communicates everything. You should make all directions and expectations completely clear, as well as the inventory or space that is available. This can be something as simple as how to use the coffeepot or television remote to using the washing machine. Don’t leave any surprises for your guests or advertise that you provide one thing when you don’t have it.
  • Keep Your Valuables Safe: Whether you’re a regular host or an every-now-and-then, it’s important to keep your valuables safe from the strangers who live among your possessions. If you have an extra room, you could store important documents or heirlooms in the room and restrict access. A fireproof safe, with a combination lock or key, is also a good idea. If you are too worried about having your stuff looked at or handled, you probably should reconsider becoming an Airbnb host.

 

 

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Office Space : Decorate for Holiday Festivities

They say “tis the season to be jolly.” This does not have to be restricted to only your personal life. However, you do not want to take your holiday celebrations to the extreme either. There is wisdom in balancing your career with your holiday excitement. Unless your livelihood is not linked to the paycheck you receive from your job or you work from Scrooge then finding that happy medium will be vital. Most business establishment and offices use this festive period to give their surroundings a new and appealing look. Typically everyone appreciates beautiful decorations and you can use that as your first step to test the waters. If you turn your cubicle office space into a cleanly designed but holiday themed work zone then there is a probability that your employer might take notice and invite you to decorate the entire business premises. This would give you the opportunity to demonstrate your team spirit and bring some seasons glow.

The following are some tips that can make your holiday time spent at work more enjoyable:

  • Mind the size of your office. Even if your boss or other employees don’t appreciate office decoration during holidays, you can do it in a way that they won’t be bothered. Don’t over-do it like most people do. Just keep it simple and beautiful. If you over-clutter your space with Christmas trees and toys, when you know your office is small, then you are making it look like your job is secondary. It could also portray you as disorganized.
  • Start and end with cleaning. If your employer or other co-worker seem to be less than pleased with your decorations, they will appreciate a neat office. Start the decoration from your door by giving it a little scrub and then move on to clean the walls and windows of your office. You must also be sure to clean up any mess your decoration might have created in the course of designing them.
  • Use small but beautiful decorations. Having adopted the principle of simplicity, you can go ahead and get beautiful but colorful Christmas trees that you can attach to your door or office table. You might also want to speak with your boss and see if he/she would want to increase team moral by throwing a contest. This would promote teamwork and make the office look more festive. Be sure that any materials or tools you use at your place of employment has been approved and sanctioned by your supervisor. There is always the possibility of an accident at work.
  • Changing your window blinds to colorful green and red mixture during festive periods like this is also acceptable.
  • Choose your decoration time cautiously. If you don’t want to offend others, ensure your decoration time is well planned and scheduled to avoid criticism. You should try not to decorate during your work hours. Decorating activities should take place either before or after your normal schedule. This will not only give you time to focus on the placement but will come as a surprise to your co-workers.
  • Avoid loud music. If you are alone in the office or you share it with others, you must avoid any form of distraction. Christmas songs are good and melodious but you need to make sure that your music is not distracting another employee.

What are your plans for the holidays? Do you have any office decorating tips you would like to share?

 

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Winter Driving Safety

As soon as snow and ice arrives on roadways, some drivers act like they have never driven in wintery weather. Although a good amount of winter car accidents occur due to the inclement weather, many accidents occur because of a driver error. Fortunately, there are ways that you can decrease your chances of getting in an accident during the icy and snowy winter weather.

Get a Car Check-Up

 

The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) recommends getting your car checked out before the winter weather hits, but if snow has already fallen where you live go ahead and visit a trusted vehicle technician. Even if you have scheduled maintenance on your vehicle, you’ll want to make sure the following are running and working properly:

 

  • Tires: A tire with little tread will be of little help on the ice and snow. A good rule of thumb when testing the tread on your tire is by putting a penny in one of the treads. If Lincoln’s head is covered, your tread is good. If not, you should have your tires checked out and consider getting them replaced. It’s always a good idea to stick to your tire rotation schedule, too.

 

 

  • Battery: Colder weather is hard on your car’s battery and if it’s older you’re likely to go out to your car some morning and find that it won’t start. Check the cable connections and make sure that the terminals (or posts) are clean. It may be a good idea to go ahead and purchase a new one if your battery is old.

 

 

If your car technician suggests replacing anything else, such as hoses, don’t wait until you have a breakdown. It will save you more money in the long run.

Refresh Yourself on Winter Driving

 

Winter driving can be stressful, particularly if you’re caught in a snowstorm during your commute. Although you may be nervous or feel under pressure by other motorists, stay calm and take your time.

 

  • Get the Forecast: Whenever possible check out the weather forecast and if it sounds like travel isn’t recommended, try to stay off the roads. Give yourself extra time to get to where to need to go.

 

  • Keep Your Distance: Tailgating is a terrible driving habit. In the winter, in particular, it’s extremely important to keep a safe distance between you and other vehicles, specifically larger trucks and snow plows. Never try to pass a snowplow.

Prepare Yourself for an Emergency

 

No one wants to get stranded or run into car issues during the winter months, but it’s wise to prepare yourself for any type of emergency. Experts suggest either buying or building your own winter emergency car kit, which can include anything from non-perishable foods to blankets to flashlights and road flares.

 

Winter driving doesn’t need to be dangerous. A lot of the winter driving risks depends greatly on the choices that drivers make in maintaining their vehicles and how they operate their vehicles.

 

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Personal Injury Law: Know Your Rights

Personal injury law, or tort law, deals with incidents where a person is injured due to the negligence of someone else. Personal injury is a broad field and includes physical accidents caused at work, car accidents, psychological illness, damage caused through defective products, etc. In this case, a third party is responsible for deliberately or unintentionally doing harm to others. So, what can you do if, unfortunately, you are faced with similar situations? It is really important to be aware of the laws in your state to take appropriate actions. First of all, you need to immediately find legal help before the statute of limitations ends, which tends to differ from state to state and case to case. A lawyer will evaluate your case and advise you on further proceedings. You must be ready with the following information prior to getting a lawyer:

  • The place where the incident occurred (this will help to decide the guilty party)
  • The date when the incident occurred (normally one can sue the guilty party within a year)
  • How it occurred? (to prove that it really was the mistake of the guilty party)
  • Were there any witnesses present at that time?
  • How much compensation are you ready to accept to settle the matter?

What to do when the settlement is unsuccessful?

Though most of the civil cases are resolved before moving to court, there are many instances when the defendant (accused party) is not ready to compensate the victim (plaintiff). When this happens, the next step is to move into court and challenge the defendant there. A judge will handle the case and give you a hearing date. If you win, the defendant could be liable for your legal fees during the trial and any lost wages. It must be noted that, in civil cases, the defendant will not be given any jail time. That only happens during a criminal case. In civil cases, the defendant will compensate through paying fees. The highest compensation is offered when serious injuries such as bone fracture or brain injuries are involved. It is imperative to consult with your lawyer about the fee they will charge. There is also an option of “no-win, no-fee.” So, it would be better to have a talk with the lawyer before proceeding with the case. Having enough evidence in the form of documents and witnesses is of immense importance to make a good case. If you don’t have any evidence, even if you are the victim, the court won’t be able to take any actions.

Court trial: what to expect and time taken

The compensation offered is directly proportional to the severity of the accident, provided you win. In any case, your lawyer will be there throughout the trial to help with all the proceedings. It is vital to note that the time taken till the verdict is reached depends on the strength of your claims and evidence. Normally, civil cases, contrary to criminal cases, takes less time to reach a verdict. However, it all depends on the evidence, your local jurisdiction and the defendant. Conclusively, you must be aware of the rights if you are involved in an accident.

Have you been involved in a civil case? What was the outcome? Leave your comments below:

 

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4 Ways to Ensure Your Business is ADA Compliant

As of this July, the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) is twenty-five years old. In 1990, activists convinced lawmakers to make sweeping changes to the way society treated people with disabilities. Things the ADA made common include now-familiar things like curb cuts and wheelchair ramps, assets to Americans of all abilities. Let’s celebrate the achievements of the ADA by discussing ways you can ensure your business complies with the law. Remember, business who ignore the ADA may be at risk of many types of lawsuit. A person with a disability who gets injured on your land could sue your business.

Be Wheelchair Accessible

Under the ADA, buildings need to be accessible to people in wheelchairs. Wheelchair accessibility can take many forms.

 

  • Door width. According to Karmen Healthcare, doors must be 32 inches wide. This ensures that people in wheelchairs can get in and out of your establishment freely. People don’t want to get stuck in your doorway. And you don’t want your doorway to get plugged up.
  • Bathrooms should also be big enough to fit someone’s chair. You’ll need at least one stall per bathroom.

 

Have Accessible Parking

For someone with a disability, a long walk across a parking lot can be a trial, even a dangerous one. You don’t want someone getting hurt in your parking lot, do you? Parking lots are required to have at least one accessible spot for every twenty-five parking spots. Additionally, one out of every six spots needs to be van accessible.

Install Accessible Door Handles

Certain types of door handle are difficult, painful, or impossible to open for a person with a disability. Accessible handles are generally defined as handles which swing, not turn in a circle. The ADA has specific rules about how many accessible handles your establishment needs. At least sixty per cent of your entrances need accessible handles. Make sure your business is accessible to everyone. This will improve business, as well as ensure that nothing goes wrong on your property.

Don’t Forget Web Accessibility

Yes, your website should comply as well. Although a non-compliant website will not land you a personal injury lawsuit, it is still important that you keep aware of this requirement, since it will make sure everyone can access your content. To make your site accessible, your site will need to be able to be read by a screen reader. A screen reader is a piece of adaptive technology that allows a person who is blind to use the internet. The reader lists off every content item on a page and reads it to the user. To comply with the ADA, the most important thing is that your page’s images will need an html tag called <alt>, along with a description of the image. This tag allows the screen read to describe each image to the user. Speak with your webmaster to make sure your alt tags are accurate and up to date. As a bonus, search engines like google also use <alt> tags, so these tags will help make it easier for all people to find your website.

 

Teach Your Child About Safety

Once the summer ends and school is back in session, you shouldn’t have to worry about your child, wondering if he or she is safe. While schools should be a safe environment for children of all ages, children are still prone to injury at school or during extracurricular activities. It’s impossible to follow your child around all the time nor can you create a magic bubble to protect them from harm. You can, however, teach your children how to be safe at school and during other activities away from home. Your child may still suffer an accidental injury, but if he or she is prepared to be safer the chances of injury are less likely.

At School

 

Children of any age are prone to injury from time to time, it just seems to be a natural occurrence. Whether your Kindergartener tripped on his untied shoelaces or your teen daughter slipped on the ice while wearing slick soled shoes, you can’t always predict when an accident will occur and if an injury will be the result. When your child attends school, he or she is taught about school safety and what choices are safest. Unfortunately, like many children are known to do, some follow the rules only some of the time. Here are some ways to reinforce your child’s  safety at school:

 

  • Remind your child to follow directions and don’t break any safety rules.

 

  • Encourage your child to think before he or she makes a choice at school. For example, ask questions that will make your child think about consequences. What would happen if you pulled on your classmate’s shirt? What might happen if you jump off of the monkey bars? How would you feel if your chair fell on the floor because you were tipping backwards?

 

  • Explain your expectations and discuss consequences for not following safety rules at school.

On the Field

 

Kids who play sports are almost destined for an injury. Each year, millions of children of all ages visit the ER for various sport related injuries from dislocations to concussions. While it’s the coach’s responsibility to supply safety equipment and teach your child how to use it properly, you can be influential in your child’s safety during sports. Explain to your child why safety equipment, such as helmets and pads, are essential while playing a sport. Encourage your child to talk to you if he or she feels like the sport is too dangerous or if he or she sees that the equipment is not being used properly. Additionally, always encourage your child to warm up and to stay hydrated in order to prevent injury.

Out and About

 

Whether your child walks home from school with a friend or is taking the bus for an extracurricular activity, your child must know how to be safe. While goofing around on the school bus seems to be the “cool” thing to do, remind your child how to be safe while riding a school bus and explain that failing to follow directions can lead to injury.

 

If your child is old enough to walk home from school or walk around the neighborhood with friends, he or she may still need to be reminded about safety. Even in low traffic neighborhoods, children may be injured as a result of failing to pay attention to traffic or walking in the street.

 

If a child is well-informed about safety and injury prevention, he or she can have more independence without causing you stress or worry.

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Choosing a Personal Injury Specialization

As a lawyer fresh from law school, or even as an established member of the bar, it is easy to see and note the various occurrences that result in personal injury all around you. There are so many cases of personal injury each year that it can be tempting to want to handle every single one of them. Asides from the sheer volume of the work that would definitely weigh one down, it is noteworthy to mention that narrowing your field can help you better concentrate in your particular niche. Choosing the right specialization can help you do good for society and excel in your area of expertise.

Types Of Personal Injury Cases

There are many different types of personal injury cases, and some of them include traffic accidents, work accidents, assault, product defect, holiday accidents, medical malpractice and negligence (including dental), industrial diseases, repetitive strain injuries etc. The following are some questions you should ask yourself when you are trying to decide what aspect or type of personal injury case to specialize in:

Is This Your Passion?

The best personal injury lawyers are always passionate about the area they specialize in. You should ask yourself if you are concerned about a particular personal injury. Your compassion for victims of that particular injury would motivate you to do your best for them. Being too passionate about a cause can be a double-edged sword. If you should happen to be too passionate about the particular injury, your judgment could become clouded, or your decisions could be called in to question due to personal bias.

Do You Understand It Well?

Understanding the aspect of personal injury is a major requirement for choosing your focus area. It is common sense that you are likely to continue to do well in an area that you understand well. If you are a recent member of the bar, you can choose an aspect that formed a part of your bachelor’s degree, or if you are a seasoned attorney, then you must know or have a very good idea of what areas you have aptitude in.

Are You Compassionate?

Every personal injury lawyer, just like every lawyer, is in it for the win. You need to win the case and ensure your client gets what they deserve. However, in personal injury law there is also the humanity factor. Many of the top personal injury lawyers would tell you that the most important factor in this field is compassion. If you are compassionate with your clients about their personal injury struggles, and you are concerned with getting them their due, this will give you the motivation to succeed in doing so.

Making The Decision

You must be sure that you want to pursue personal injury law before even pondering a specialization. If you have decided that this is the route for you, choose the focus are in which you have a combination of passion, knowledge, and compassion. Narrowing it down in this way should help make your decision an easier task.

Feel Better After Suffering Medical Malpractice

Feel Better After Suffering Medical Malpractice

After an injury related to medical malpractice, it is not uncommon to be reluctant to want to stay away from hospitals. While that is understandable given the circumstance of the injury, rehabilitation is a necessary part of the healing process. This requires a professional level of care and stress relief. This stress relief can come from sources other hospitals, and some of the techniques can even be performed by you. The following are some simple ways you can relieve stress and feel better after experiencing a medical malpractice injury.

Rest!

People often try to return to full capacity after undergoing a medical procedure. If you have experienced an injury in the process, getting plenty of rest is especially crucial to help feel better and heal. It is important to let your body recover at its own pace. Do not rush this process by attempting to jump back into your previous routine until you are fully ready to do so. This will help also help to avoid placing unnecessary strain on the injury, and help to prevent further injury. Studies show that injuries occur more frequently when there is a preexisting injury.

Get a Soothing Massage

For thousands of years, massages have proven to be a sure solution for aches and pains. There are different massage therapies that can be implemented, depending on your injury and injury site. They can help with pain management and stress relief. There are many types of massages that target different results. Some examples of the many varieties of massage therapy styles include: Trigger point massages which focus on the area of injury where muscles have knotted due to the trauma, and Key area massages which focus on specific portions of the body which have been shown to have effects on other parts of the body.

Licensed chiropractors can provide this type of relief by pinpointing your trouble areas and focusing in on spots that are most troubling to you.

Other kinds of massage that are popular and well known include Swedish massage, Deep tissue massage and the Sports Massage. The Sports Massage deals with muscle based injuries. It should also be noted that massages are not restricted to muscle trauma, but can also help fibromyalgia, insomnia, anxiety and many other ailments.

Give Yourself a Massage

This massage is highly effective in treating trauma related injuries. It involves placing a ball, usually a tennis ball, on the floor of your tub which is to be filled with bearably hot water and then lying on the ball in order to run it across your back. This particular massage is effective because it utilizes both the hot temperature of the water and the nature of the ball to massage the injured area. There are many ways you can relieve stress and assist your body in the healing process after an injury. There are studies that state that having a positive outlook can help expedite your healing time. Try not to become overly angry or anxious about your medical malpractice injury. This will only add stress that can slow down your recovery. Focus instead on action items you can do to improve your circumstance.

According to the Colleran Firm, 70% of medical malpractice injuries cause serious injuries and 30% cause death. Medical malpractice is more serious than many people perceive it to be. It is a leading cause of death, yet it does not seem to get the same awareness as more ‘sensationalized’ news stories. Sadly, many Americans are experiencing the repercussions first hand.